From: "Karmeshvar"
To: am-global@earthlink.net
Subject: Wt Didi's Blind Attachment with Young Man
Date: Mon, 18 Jun 2012 22:27:39
Baba
Namaskar,
One central didi is attached with a young man of 17 years of age. They live together: Sleeping, eating, and going together etc. The name of this young man is Shubham. This central didi and Shubham are totally linked with each other.
This sets a very bad precedent because Baba has given the system that everything is divided along gender lines in our Marga. But, as you can see with this Didi, that is not what is going on these days. They are not following Baba's mandate, rather doing the exact opposite.
Actually many didis get attached with boys from their children's home. This is all based on their infatuation with the opposite sex. As the children grow older, they too get more and more attached because of having lived with the didi for so long. All of this is put into motion by the didi's blind attachment & crude desire. In that way, they go against Baba's mandate.
According to Baba's guideline of bhagavad dharma, our Wts have one family - the greater universal humanity. Every person of the entire universe is the family member of a Wt; a Wt's family is not limited to one person, a closed circle of people, nor based on moha (bind attachment). So if any worker is not following this teaching they are a fake.
Remember, attachment is not a great quality; it is a degraded and degenerated condition. When any worker has attachment with a particular individual, then it means they are not looking after others, and hence that worker cannot serve the greater society. This type of attachment is a curse to wt life.
Unfortunately, this didi is completely attached with the young man; he lives with her and they sleep in one bed. That is shameful and outrageous.
When Didi attended May DMS, the young man - Shubham - was sitting with her on the women's side of the pandal. Countless margiis and wts request them and told them not to do like this. But when this type of infatuation and attraction is so strong, then such persons do not care what society says about them not they do not care if people joke about or criticise them. That is the general rule and this applies aptly to Didiji and Shubham.
If someone is doing any type of nonsense activities in individual life then we can ignore the matter; but here there is no option. By Didi's behaviour the whole of AM is getting blamed.
Please tell what should be done in this case.
BABA'S GUIDELINE
Let us also reflect on Baba's important guideline.
Baba says, "It should be remembered that a woman’s friend is a woman and a man’s friend is a man." (Caryacarya, part 1, Social Relationship between Men and Women)
Namaskar,
Karmeshvar Deva
The name of the respected didi who is keeping company with the young man is Avtk Ananda Dyotona Ac, WWS - Global in-charge of Women Dept. Didiji collects money from around the globa and runs a children's home. Earlier she was attached with Nigamananda Dada & since his death she has shifted her attachment toward this young man - Shubham.
To: am-global@earthlink.net
Subject: Wt Didi's Blind Attachment with Young Man
Date: Mon, 18 Jun 2012 22:27:39
Baba
== WT DIDI'S BLIND ATTACHMENT WITH YOUNG MAN
==
Namaskar,
One central didi is attached with a young man of 17 years of age. They live together: Sleeping, eating, and going together etc. The name of this young man is Shubham. This central didi and Shubham are totally linked with each other.
This sets a very bad precedent because Baba has given the system that everything is divided along gender lines in our Marga. But, as you can see with this Didi, that is not what is going on these days. They are not following Baba's mandate, rather doing the exact opposite.
A COMMON OCCURRENCE
Actually many didis get attached with boys from their children's home. This is all based on their infatuation with the opposite sex. As the children grow older, they too get more and more attached because of having lived with the didi for so long. All of this is put into motion by the didi's blind attachment & crude desire. In that way, they go against Baba's mandate.
MUST NOT GO AGAINST BHAGAVAD DHARMA
According to Baba's guideline of bhagavad dharma, our Wts have one family - the greater universal humanity. Every person of the entire universe is the family member of a Wt; a Wt's family is not limited to one person, a closed circle of people, nor based on moha (bind attachment). So if any worker is not following this teaching they are a fake.
NOT A GREAT QUALITY
Remember, attachment is not a great quality; it is a degraded and degenerated condition. When any worker has attachment with a particular individual, then it means they are not looking after others, and hence that worker cannot serve the greater society. This type of attachment is a curse to wt life.
Unfortunately, this didi is completely attached with the young man; he lives with her and they sleep in one bed. That is shameful and outrageous.
When Didi attended May DMS, the young man - Shubham - was sitting with her on the women's side of the pandal. Countless margiis and wts request them and told them not to do like this. But when this type of infatuation and attraction is so strong, then such persons do not care what society says about them not they do not care if people joke about or criticise them. That is the general rule and this applies aptly to Didiji and Shubham.
If someone is doing any type of nonsense activities in individual life then we can ignore the matter; but here there is no option. By Didi's behaviour the whole of AM is getting blamed.
Please tell what should be done in this case.
BABA'S GUIDELINE
Let us also reflect on Baba's important guideline.
Baba says, "It should be remembered that a woman’s friend is a woman and a man’s friend is a man." (Caryacarya, part 1, Social Relationship between Men and Women)
Namaskar,
Karmeshvar Deva
Note 1: WHICH CENTRAL DIDI IS DOING LIKE
THIS?
The name of the respected didi who is keeping company with the young man is Avtk Ananda Dyotona Ac, WWS - Global in-charge of Women Dept. Didiji collects money from around the globa and runs a children's home. Earlier she was attached with Nigamananda Dada & since his death she has shifted her attachment toward this young man - Shubham.
PRABHAT SAMGIITA
"Ghor timire ruddha ghare ghumucchilum eka' eka'..." (P.S. 1723)
Purport:
Baba You are so gracious. I was sleeping alone in the pitch dark room with the doors and windows closed; I was lost in a sea of frustration and hopelessness. O' the Divine Entity, who are You who has blessed me by coming in this isolated place and broken my slumber. O' Divine One You are most charming and very sweet.
O' Effulgence Personified, Divine One, Parama Purusa Baba, my whole existence has been overcome by drowsiness and sleep since ages & ages. My life was dominated by staticity. Now, with Your infinite compassion, in a flash, You have removed that by showering Your cosmic grace. And in place of that Cimmerian darkness, all around there is Your divine effulgence. Baba, You have opened the windows of my mind. I can see that You are mine; now there is no question of frustration in my life.
Baba, now my whole existence is filled with the grace of Your divine effulgence. There is not even an iota of darkness which remains. My life has gotten new pra'n' a - new energy. Baba, You are so loving; You have saturated me with Your unfathomable love and own-ness.
Baba, You are my everything. Please accept my surrender...
